Instant Messaging: Emotionless Conversation

Life is unyielding; it is a constant social struggle. Social confrontation can be difficult and is sometimes better that it not happen. But fortunately, there is alternative method of conversation and confrontation that can take place. The Internet opens up all sorts of new possibilities and systems for communication. Suddenly, physical presence is no longer necessary, and you no longer have to connect with someone on a physical, or even mental basis. Long distance communication, without even opening your mouth is possible with instant messaging: a direct conversation between 2 people. This new method of conversation allows certain confrontational and otherwise unspeakable things to be said with no instant physical or material repercussions.

The great thing about the Internet is that it is still a brand new interface for communication. Written communications have been taking place for centuries, but with the invention of the computer and the keyboard, typing has revolutionized the text and literature fields; it has also allowed for the invention of something such as the Internet. The Internet has no rules—it is a medium with few regulations and standards that cannot be created quickly enough, let alone keep up with the rapid changing of the internet. To be more specific to instant messaging, there are no usage guidelines. You may speak to whomever you wish, in any manor you like, whenever you like. “The rules” are nonexistent.

Instant messaging attracts all different types of people; All different genders, ages, race, and religions. Suppose a shy white man has strong racial beliefs, but cannot voice them publicly. He may choose to send instant messages to people who he knows are people of colour, perhaps affronting them about the “impurity” of their coloured skin. He may have absolutely no problem at all voicing his opinions in this situation, since no instant physical or substantial consequence could take place, although the victims of his message may block him, which is a consequence for acting differently in this community. Eye contact also comes into play. If a person does not have to show emotion or exploit him or herself, it is easier to convey an opinion that is known to be not popular. Instant messaging allows people to say exactly what is on their mind, since they know the stress of a physical conversation will not fall upon their shoulders.

There are many different languages, including slang and an “internet language” used while instant messaging. Of course, any language can be used while messaging. Slang is commonly used to avoid typing full words or sentences, while a new emerging internet-only language is emerging to even further the ease of typing. It is not universal by any means, and is continually changing. This new language is different between the many communities