Personality

The Protector ISFJ

I am an ISFJ, which means that I am well balanced and believe in traditions. As a guardian, I protect those around me. Not, in the material senses but in the true sense of support, nutrition, and love. A few characteristics of ISFJ personality are being dependable, listening lifelong relations, and respectable.

Dependable, is major action in my view of the world. Being dependable tells people who you are and that you care about those around you. It is a security to some too know they always have a shoulder to lean on or an ear to listen. I am not huge speaker due to the fear of what others may think about my feelings and views. I will express my life experiences to others if I feel that I can provide a direction for a solution through my accomplishments or mistakes.

I am true listener and I can recall almost every story for years to come. I especially can recall events in details that affected the way I viewed or felt about my life. I can recall the way a person stood, their smile, the hostility in their face along with the verbal content they spoke. I believe you can tell a whole lot more about what a person is speaking by the way their body is positioned. Just like the old saying you can tell when someone is lying since they will not look you in the eye. There is so much truth to that, I

can only smirk recalling a past events of that while writing this.

As a protector I strive to be in serious relationship. Being in a permanent relationship tells about who you are. It tells me that you are dependable, that you care, and you want to satisfy your loved ones needs. I do make a great friend, since I will work and work to make a relationship last. I want to be remembered as a loving person and a true friend. Only with close friends will open about the fears I have inside. The major fear I have is that perhaps I could have done more or the what if’s in the past and the present.

I like to say that I see the world, as evolving masterpiece. I am afraid at times of what the future may bring, when the world seems to always be in ciaos. Each day is a routine set of events from waking my kids to what show I watch on what day. I like to have plans planned. Last minute actions create a panic inside me. Not as much in the last few years since I am becoming more compelled to who I am. I want everyone I meet to like me but I am come across as cold to a lot people. I enjoy watching people and

listening to their conversations to see if I have some common ground with them. I spend a lot of time worrying about what others think of me. And while I am fretting about what I should say, they have already become bored and passed judgment on who they think I am. I am truly a loyal person in all means. I believe in people and what they want to do with their lives. I believe in the quality of life. It is important in having friendship and love in you life. Having a close friend is so much more special than having many acquaintances. There is another saying about how many people come to a funeral is actually how many friends you have. I do not believe that is true in all respects. Many people will come since that is the respected thing to do. But, I believe your true friends will give you the space to grieve and be there the weeks or months down the roads when the loneliness has overcome you.

I believe all people are good people, some perhaps deeper down than others. A lot of people blame the way they are on their past. But, that is not an excuse. The situations we face in the world are stepping blocks on who we become tomorrow. As the situations occur they allow to grow and learn. We all make mistakes but it is not harm. If we overcome the situations we are only stronger and wiser. Each day we wake up to a new day and a full horizon of possibilities. It is our choice on which direction we want to take. And we do not like the path, go back and change it the next day. If we all wallowed in our sorrows there would be nothing left in a smile or a hello. You can actually make a persons day by a simple smile. The easiest things to do to encourage or show support are usually thrown to the waste side.

I believe children should be taught responsibilities and respect. I do not always agree classify a