Domesic Violence

These days it is easy to find a piece of news which informs us about a death of a woman who has been killed by her husband or her boyfriend. Hundred of women are mistreated and then assassinated each year and these deaths are increasing. However, although this is the main problem in our society,there are other kinds of domestic violence that not many people knowbut they have the same importance. In this essay I intent to give a definition of domestic violence and explain the main kinds of abuses.I will also suggest some possible solutions to diminish or to eliminate this problem and I will show some domestic indicators. I intent to argue some unhelpful behaviours and to finish I will discuss the effects of domestic violence in children.

The term family violence includes all forms of violence within families. It is commonly used to describe the abuse women suffer at the hands of their male partners, but it is also used to mean family violence. Domestic violence can be physical, sexual, psychological, social or economic. Domestic violence is a hidden problem. It occurs in the privacy of a home, and those involved are usually reluctant to talk about it. The overwhelming majority are women and children who are more vulnerable.

There are a lot of kinds of domestic violence such as physical abuse, verbal/emotional abuse, economic abuse, sexual abuse, social abuse or spiritual abuse. The first kind is physical and verbal/emotioonal abuse. This is produced when any action intended to degrade, humiliate and demean, both in public or private, including threats to injure or otherwise harm, the partner or the children; putting one's partner down and making them feel bad about themselves and their abilities; treating one's partner like a servant; abuser making decisions regarding partner's financial status, free time, friendships, work and leisure activities. This constant humiliation will destroy a woman's belief in herself and she may start to believe that she's worthless, that the violence is her fault. Verbal abuse also includes threats of physical violence and violent verbal outbursts. Economic abuse occurs where the man has total control over all financial resources. The woman may have to beg for money to buy necessities and when it is given, it may often be insufficient. She is then criticised for being stupid and incompetent in failing to provide adequately with this sum. Another kind of domestic violence can be sexual abuse, this includes any attempt to force a partner to have sex or perform sexual acts against their will. Sexual assault may or may not involve physical force. In 1985 in Victoria that rape in marriage was officially recognised as a crime. Many men still believe that they have the right to unlimited sexual access to their wives. Social abuse exists where the abuser prevents their partner from having any social contact, limiting what the partner does, whom they see, what they read, where they go etc. Social abuse is the constant monitoring and control of women's activities, outings and friendships. Finally, spiritual violence may be based on race, colour, or other forms of identification with that community.

The result for the abused woman can be public humiliation and isolation from friends and other members of her family.

I think that there are a lot of ways to diminish domestic violence and anybody can help to prevent. Some suggestions can be learn more about domestic violence yourself, how to recognise it, the laws relating to it and how to find help for a victim. If a woman tells you that she is being abused, believe her, and let her know that you do so. Take her fear seriously and ask how you can best support her, but respect her decision if she wishes to do nothing at this time. Don't allow jokes about domestic violence to be made in your presence. Support local services or groups helping people affected by the problem. Support domestic violence community education and training, and help advertise them. Phone the police if you are concerned about a woman's safety. There is evidence to suggest that arrest reduces the likelihood of further violence. Learn to recognise the signs that indicate a woman may be suffering domestic violence and how to help those involved. Familiarise yourself with the law related to domestic violence and use it to assist victims of violence to gain protection. Get help if you are a victim of violence. And moreover, If you are violent, seek help.

I believe that it is very important to know whom are the main domestic violence indicators to realize somebody bears an abuse.

One indicator is the evidence of physical injuries, for instance, If a woman has an obvious physical injury, ask her about it as sensitively as possible. Don't ignore it…

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