Domestic Violence

Although domestic violence includes sibling abuse and elder abuse, and child abuse the

focus of my essay is on spouse abuse. Domestic violence has many names; family violence,

battering, wife beating, and domestic abuse. All these terms refer to the same thing, abuse by a

marital, common law, or a dating partner in an intimate relationship. Domestic violence is not

limited to physical beatings. It is any behaviour that is intended to subjugate and control another

human being through the use of humiliation, fear, and physical or verbal assaults. Domestic

violence is very important issue in today's society because it has such a profound negative affect

on the abused, mentally and physically, and more needs to be done to help the abused and

prevent it from happening further. Even though Domestic violence can be caused by either the

male or the female it is usually caused by the male due to their controlling nature and physical

advantage.

History and Causes

Since the dawn of time physical force has been used to keep subordinate groups in their place by

dominant people in society. Men have always been physically larger than women and since most

societies are male dominated, too no surprise the woman has almost always been the most

common victim. In Roman times, a man was allowed to divorce, chastise, or even kill his wife

for adultery, attending public games, or public drunkenness. All of which the husband was

allowed to freely partake in. During the middle ages it was mans right to beat his wife or kill her

for so much as giving her husband a dirty look. The first recorded advocates against domestic

violence were two author by names of Christian Pizan and Mary Wollstonecraft. Even though

the issue was being publicized, no action was ever taken until the 1840's when the American

women's movement brought up the issue while fighting for the right to vote. No state in the U.S

actually passed a law making wife beating illegal until 1883.

Finding the reasons or causes of domestic violence is a very difficult. There is never one reason

for domestic violence but it usually begins with a controlling nature and the need the need to

control one's spouse. It begins with verbal insults and degradation then over time escalates into

physical violence. The abuser has usually been involved in domestic violence case's before.

More than likely during child hood. There is usually many different stressors and factors that

cause these inherent or learned abusers to begin the abuse; unemployment, drugs and alcohol,

different religious back rounds, low income levels, and lower education levels and simply

different points of view.. None of these factors are not meant to be excuses, they are simply

factors that come up in domestic violence cases time and time again.

Types of Abuse/Psychology of domestic violence

When domestic violence occurs there is several different types of abuse that take place. The first

is physical violence. Physical violence includes slapping, kicking, burning, punching, choking,

locking a person out of the home, restraining, and other acts designed to injure, endanger, or

cause physical pain. The second type is emotional abuse which consists of consistently doing or

saying