What Women Want
By: Monika • Essay • 828 Words • April 21, 2010 • 1,544 Views
What Women Want
My Spanish teacher once told me that throughout my life women would confuse me. I never understood what my teacher was telling me until today. In a relationship, men need someone who will be their friend, companion, and lover, but on the other hand, women have no clue of what they want from a relationship. Women are difficult to please, and I must add, they are IMPOSSIBLE.
"I like you. I love you. I want to marry you." Women use these testimonies everyday to set up a clueless ending to a relationship. If I were to tell you all the reasons why women are impossible, I would be writing forever. I plan not to do that. I'll start by saying just not long ago; a friend of mine was having problems in his relationship. His girlfriend ended their relationship for no apparent reason. The only answer she could give my friend was that she felt things between them weren't the same. She concludes by saying it's not that serious. If you ask me, she has no clue what she wants. In relationships, it's just like a woman to leave a man clueless. The man is expected to know what she is thinking at all times. Just when men think they have an idea of what their woman wants and presents them with more love than they can handle, whether the love he gives her is a special kiss or gift, she'll turn it down of course and begin to cry. When things are not going the way women expect them to, they began to cry. They'll dump you, and then begin to cry again like it's the man's fault. Don't get me wrong, men have their faults, but that is the affect of women. Women are the number one reason many men 'play" them. Because of women, men now find it necessary to have several women instead of one. If one is being difficult to handle, then there are others to "play" with. Women criticize men for doing this, but if only they knew it is their doing that causes a man to break down, become single, and mess around. Men are tired of trying to satisfy women who are in need of "more" in a relationship, so they seek those women who do not mind a little less love from men. The answer is simple. Women are being used because they are difficult to handle.
I was in a previous relationship where everything was nearly perfect. Just when I thought the girl was really the one for me, I find out she has been cheating on me. For two years we have been together. For two years, I tried my best to live up to her expectation as a boyfriend, and for a year she's been cheating on me. For two years, I have spoiled this girl, and she makes me look like a fool. Her actions are what make me think back to what my Spanish teacher told me. She commented on how confusing women would