The Reality of Rape

Running head: THE REALITY OF RAPE

The Reality of Rape

Crystal Hebert

Southern New Hampshire University

Rape is a crime of violence and aggression that not only hurts a victim for the moment, but it shatters her entire life. According to the Britannica Encyclopedia, rape is defined as “any kind of unlawful sexual activity, usually sexual intercourse, carried out forcibly or under threat of injury and against the will of the victim.” This definition has been redefined to cover same-sex attacks and attacks against those who are incapable of valid consent, including persons who are mentally ill, intoxicated, drugged, etc. (rape). Because rape crimes affect all races, cultures, ages, and economical classes, it is difficult to create concrete research on the topic because of the variances. Society in the United States by no means condones rape, but it does expect it. The theories of rape are all different but the crime is always the same, a violation of one’s self through a sexual act.

There are many different types of rape including date rape, statutory rape, gang rape, and acquaintance rape. Though there are more than a handful of different names to view rape, all of the names have one thing in common: a victim. The frightening reality is that all of the rape studies that have been done show that the perpetrator is usually someone that the victim knows and/or trusts; during the dating years, seventy to ninety percent of rapes are acquaintance or date rapes (Mackey). Even more terrifying is that only one-third of rapes are reported to law enforcement officials (Buddie & Miller). Victims are most likely afraid that by going through with the process of pressing charges on his/her perpetrator that they, in turn, will be blamed using one or more of the ridiculous rape myths, by society. The reality of rape is a startling combination of ignorance relating to rape myths, lack of reportings and convictions, severe post-traumatic feelings of the attack, and theories of rape, both psychological and sociological.

Rape is such a difficult crime to prove because it usually comes down to the victim’s word against the perpetrator’s word. In the United States, anyone who is charged with a crime is innocent until they are proven guilty beyond a reasonable doubt. In order to prove that the crime did indeed happen, a victim is usually humiliated and she is forced to re-live the horrible incident of being sexually violated. A defense attorney may verbally attack the victim on the stand in court accusing her of not trying to defend herself and that if the assault did happen, she would have been able to get away if she really wanted to (Mackey). This defense is one of the many rape myths that many people believe are true. The fact is that in many incidences of rape, the perpetrator will threaten the victim with some sort of weapon, including threatening to beat her. Any logical woman realizes that a rapist is usually not a murderer, and if she cooperates, she will be let go with only the images and pain of the horrible attack. In fact, less than two percent of murders in the U.S. involved rape or any other sexual assault (Greenfield). In rape situations, the victim has lost control over what may happen to her life and her body; she is victimized and over-powered.

According to a study done by the U.S. Department of Justice, “the closer the relationship between the female victim and the offender, the greater the likelihood that the police would not be told about the rape or sexual assault” (Rennison). The probable reason for this is related to a rape myth that states that most rapes are committed by strangers; it isn’t rape if the victim and perpetrator knew each other (Office on Violence Against Women). Perhaps this is ignorance on the victim’s part because she believes that it isn’t rape if it was by her spouse, boyfriend, friend, or acquaintance. It’s feasible that this ignorance adds to the reasons that rape is continuing in the country; if a man can “get away with” raping one woman, why not do it again?

Another example of ignorance is that many men do not seem to recognize the difference between consensual pre-rape intimacy and forced sex. According to one study, fifty percent of young men interviewed believe it is okay to force sex on a woman if she consents to intimacy and then changes her mind, or if she led him to believe that he would attain